So Ive been dating this guy (we are both mid 30s) a couple weeks and hes been great so far, fantastic to talk to.
So he stayed overnight at my place for the first time and I woke up in the morning to the coffee maker running and mumbled "are you making COFFEE?" and he said "yep, do you want me to make you one?". Next thing I know hes walking by fully naked with his coffee in hand to piss with the door open ☠️
This dude had to dig through all my cabinets to find a mug and coffee and figure out a whole new coffee machine. Its also a 700 square foot apartment so the coffee machine and kitchen was only like 10 feet away and he made tons of noise. He also "forgot" his overnight bag at my place so he "guess he has to come back".
Is this dude just extremely comfortable with himself or is this a weird red flag? Never had anyone act like they own the place the first time they came over.