I don't like my bf's beard when he grows it out. When it's short it's nice but when he has a lot of hair I hate it. When I was 6 I was SA'd and the person kissing me had a beard like that. I'm not ready to tell him this because it's my private business.
That is the biggest reason I dont like it but it's also unkept and scraggy and it rubs against my face and I hate the look. It just turns me off. Mainly for the first reason but the second reason is the only one I'm comfortable telling him.
I no longer want to have Sex, I will not kiss him anymore I just can't. It makes my skin crawl. The problem is I asked him to shave it down and he got annoyed. So I left it alone.
But I don't think it's fair because I often will ask him about hairstyles he likes best on me (out of my favorite ones) and I'll try to wear those more. I even shave often because I know he likes it more. Which I don't like because it's itches when it grows back. How do i approach this subject without telling him about my childhood but still getting him to shave it down? or is that controlling?