33m got outta a 5 year relationship about 8 months ago. Finally felt ready to start dating and I gotta say I don't feel a thing for these matches from Hinge. Out of about 6 I had one thing that was exciting but after 4 dates but got turned away bc there wasn't a physical connection. Yikes. Self esteem is at absolute 0 after being rejected time after time. I make good money, I'm in shape, I think I'm decently attractive.
But nothing feels exciting anymore? I've been in love 3 times and honestly thought the last one was 'it'. Can't help but feel like nothing will be good anymore and I'm just exhausted about the whole effort. Anyone felt like this? Did it get better? How? Focusing on yourself, having no expectations?