So l bought my first dildo right? I don't really want to have intercourse with a guy as a first time yk? The most I usually use is like, the width of a tampon. I tried preparing myself with something larger, but not as large as a dildo. It went in, but it hurt so badly. Like it stung. I used lube, but like a few drops. Like a dollop. Is it supposed to hurt like that? Am I not using enough? Am I the problem?
Any advice to make it not painful would help