Hey everyone,
I’m in kind of a tricky spot. I know I’m a good-looking guy and often get attention from girls, but my confidence isn’t where it should be. I tend to be quiet and reserved, which makes it tough to connect, even when things seem to be going well. I find myself overthinking every interaction and worrying about what to say next, which only adds to my anxiety.
I’ve dealt with social anxiety for a while now, but deep down, I believe I’m funny and lovable. I really want to stop holding myself back and learn to love myself more. How can I change this and become more confident and talkative?
It’s frustrating because I do know how to communicate and what to say; it’s just that overthinking gets the better of me. I miss the confident guy I used to be, but years of self-doubt have taken their toll.
Recently, I spent time with a girl I really enjoyed being around, but I found myself overthinking during our time together, which was a bummer. I just want to chill with girls, make connections, and truly enjoy life with others.
I can meet up with a girl now and take her home with me as i will, i just want to live without having deep anxiety insecurites and live life , some trauma fucked me in the past but i wanna go over that
Any tips?