Some context and history, we have been very close friends for about 5 years or so If I recall. recently both of us got out of relationships (within the past 2 months) and I just move into my own place. I am m23 she is f23. She is from the next city over about an hour drive. Not too far of a drive for our area. When I was showing pictures of my room all settled in she said she will have to come for a sleepover/movie night this weekend. I have offered a place to stay if she ever needs in the past.
About a year into our friendship we had talked about having sex and that we both kinda lusted over eachother a bit but mutually and equally agreed it might ruin what we got. Obviously over time people change and we have consistently been there for each other and communicated even if we hadn’t seen each other for months.we always use each other for relationship advice so I got a pretty good idea what she wants and obviously what I want. I assume she knows the same stuff about me. We get along well and share pretty much if not all of our viewing points and opinions. Im planning on winging it and just going with it but I just have no clue what to expect. I’m planning on offering the bed and me sleeping on the floor haha.
Honestly i am not planning on making any first moves. I am and would be comfortable with our dynamic shift if something did happen but I’m not so sure about her. I’m also happy just staying friends. I’m moreso just unsure if there is any actual tension or if the freshly single me is just trigger happy! LoL
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