Me and my gf very recently started having sex, and I’m lucky enough to get blowjobs from her too. Visually her blowjobs are amazing and watching her turns me on so much. I just feel like the intensity of the physical sensation doesn’t nearly match the intensity of the visuals if that makes sense. She goes very slow and sensual, while focusing on eye contact and otherwise just looking really hot. I’m able to finish from her blowjobs, but it usually takes well over 20 minutes and by the end I’m essentially just jerking myself off to the view of her. I’ve never came in her mouth, which is one of my biggest fantasies.
During sex I love the sensation of grabbing her by her wrists or neck and pulling her in very hard. It’s the best feeling in the world for me, and it makes me finish quickly if I do it a lot. I don’t push her head even though I really fucking want to, I’ve seen enough posts scolding men for doing that. It’s pretty much a necessity for me to put my hand behind her head or neck when she’s sucking me off and I just squeeze her when I get the urge to push. It doesn’t quite satisfy me but she really likes it, especially when I told her what it meant.