Some context: I (25F) having been trying to add some more spice to me and my boyfriend’s (32M) sex life. We already have fantastic and regular sex, but I’ve been trying to push myself more and more out of my shell to experiment and to be more self confident. I secretly bought extremely cute lingerie (imo, leather and lace and pink bows.)
Today I waited until he started dinner to put it on as a surprise and the plan in my head was to pose seductively at the kitchen table and tease him as he would be too busy with dinner to touch me. Or just tease him and not let him touch me until afterwards.
That didn’t go as planned. He saw me sit at the table and laughed it off, saying “What are you even doing, you weirdo?.”
What did I do wrong?! Do I just accept that I’m not as sexy as I think I can be? Was I being weird?