I [24M] am just casually hooking up with different women, usually in flings lasting 2/3 weeks, and I’ve found when having sex though I know they are happy and enjoy the experience, (something I was always insecure about) I can’t seem to get them to reach orgasm, either by oral or with sex, and don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I don’t ever mention it or give off the impression I’m frustrated cuz I feel that would ruin the vibe but I always find after the aftercare when they’ve fallen asleep and I’m still awake doing a post-game replay why it didn’t get into the threshold of an orgasm.
Wondered if anyone has been in the position of either me or the girls and shed light on what they did and what I’m maybe missing or totally doing wrong?