Has anyone actually been happy in a relationship with an avoidant?

I see horror stories of dating avoidant people, that it's similar to dating a wall. They are emotionally unavailable, tend to blame you for everything, and it's entirely a one sided relationship. So i'm wondering for people who have either gotten into a long relationship with an avoidant or married one, how did it feel, and did you actually feel fulfilled while being with them, despite your emotional needs not being met? Or is it usually all doom and gloom?