So my GF(20) has asked me(20m)recently to talk dirty to her when we sleep together but I don’t like it much because I feel it’s weird and a little creepy and demeaning to her. I think this stems from myself being primarily be raised in by my mother and living in a matriarchal family with our mothers and grandmothers being the head of the household. This has made me not super comfortable with talking to women in anything outside of an authority structure as they were always the authority figure to me.
I want to make sex enjoyable for her and she really enjoyed my piss poor attempt but at the same time it makes me uncomfortable and pulls me out of the mood which makes it bad for both of us. How can I make this work for both of us or will I just have to bite the bullet a bit. I don’t have a problem with giving up my enjoyment for her if I have to.