Hey guys. This is my first time posting on here so I hope this is the right place to ask this.
I’ve been with my wife for 10 years now. I have never once done anything to make her think that I’m unfaithful. I have a very strong belief that being unfaithful is one of the worst things you can do as a man, and she knows this. I trust her 100% but she does not trust me. I know she is insecure, but it’s to the point where after sex if I last longer than usual, she’s upset and thinking I’ve done something that I haven’t.
I love her to death and at this point I don’t know how to assure her anymore. I feel like after 10 years of you can’t trust who you’re seeing, what does that mean? I’ve been putting up with it but it’s tiring having to have my integrity checked all the time when I’ve done nothing wrong. Sex has also become less enjoyable because she’s thinking that I’m thinking of something else or if I last too long it’s because I think she’s unattractive. I’ve been reassuring her that I love her and think she’s gorgeous, but after 10 years I don’t know what to do.