i matched with this guy on tinder and we’ve been texting daily for over a month now. we’ve gone on 3 dates so far and all have been very romantic (watching the sunset/swimming/picnicking at a swim hole.) all dates he’s picked me up and drove 40+ minutes to different sunset spots/swimming holes. on the first date, we went to an overlook and watched the sunset and then went back to his house and he made me dinner. he told me he wasn’t really looking for anything serious but we definitely have a connection and click extremely well. he also told me on the first date that he deleted tinder. we did have sex on the 2nd date but it was consensual and we were both into it. yesterday we went on our third date and had a great time watching the sunset and holding each other and talking about anything and everything. me and him are both in pretty transitional parts of our lives and i understand not wanting to be in a full on relationship right now. i really like him and enjoy his company, i am just confused about the “i’m not really looking for anything serious.” statement. i feel like if he wasn’t looking for anything serious at this point he wouldn’t be putting that much effort in on our dates and frequently seeing me. its been more than a month since he said that so i’m wondering if he still has that same mindset. i am okay with not being in a full on committed relationship right now but i would like for there to be a possibility of commitment in the future when we are both ready and exclusivity between us (i am not talking to anyone else). should i have a conversation about it soon or should i continue to date him and go with the flow?


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