Hello everyone, this is my first time on here so not sure how this works but I’m going to write a lot of stuff so you guys fully understand my situation
To start off with, me M21 have been with my girlfriend F20 for about 1 year and almost 3 months now. We met online from a friends app and have been long distance since we got together and met up already for a month which went smooth for the most part? ( some small things again happened) we plan on meeting up soon again but lately I don’t feel as happy or in love as I once did with her, which I understand is normal in relationships, but here’s my situation.
Long story short, sometimes I feel undervalued or not respected enough in the relationship which I already talked about with her a few times in the past. This is small things like not responding / watching videos I send her on social medias, not saving or commenting on any snaps I send her, trying to start conversations with her in the mornings or after work but just dry answers until she wants to talk. Getting mad at me for stuff that I can’t control. Talking to me in certain tones when she’s frustrated. Etc etc etc, anyways you guys get the point. I’ve already talked to her about this stuff but it makes me feel like I’m too sensitive or care too much about these things because at the end of the day we are adults and I need to be more of a man about this right?So why does responding to tiktoks matter. Anyways theirs alot more I can talk about if you guys want to ask any questions but I just want some honest answers, am I being too much about these things? This is my first relationship and I don’t want to self sabotage or maybe let things slide too easily, but I just don’t know. I just want energy to be reciprocated at the end of the day because I know what it feels like to be ignored or not valued in life so I try my best to make others not feel like that. This could come down to self esteem issues or not having better things to do but just be honest with me and tell me what I need to do in my situation.