Hi all.
I am a 26 male and i need some… advice.
I want to be more rough while having sex. Ofc i don't wanna fuck like a pornstar or something like that, it's just that I enjoy this (and ofc will only do that with ladies that give me consent).
I just wanna know that I can be a little agressive and perhaps (the most dificult answer) how exacttly. While ladies do like some slap in the ass and i love swearing, I don't know what else could i do because my brain bugs me. For example, if she's in a position in front of me and sucking my cock, i might not have a way to grab her hair, unles… Is it ok to grab the hair on the front? Like, above the forehead?
Or, for example, slaps. I love to slap in the face but on most positions I'm not able to do that. I can hold her face hard, but i might need to stop thrusting to have balance. Is it ok to stop a little, hold her face, swear, spit, and go on? Or people can do that without stopping? Is that what they do?
Well, perhaps many of the insecurities come because I was taught to think about girls (and people in general too) like glass. At the same time, I don't know how much strenght to use and, simultaneously, I suspect I'm not that strong. I'm a little muscular man, I'm not buffed but i go to the gym and have some muscles and I have what they call on english of "a pretty boy's face", so yeah, I'm 26 but i still look really young. Women don't expect that I can fuck like this when they look at me, but, of course, I wanna do this not because I want to prove something but it really makes me excited. Also, perhaps it would be a nice surprise to my partner.