I don’t think I can take it anymore. How do I get over the fact that there are people who are constantly sexualising and fantasizing about the person I’m in love with? It makes me want to physically hurt them but I’m not trying to get myself into a mess and come off as a punk since I have an image to maintain at work as it’s very important to me.
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Therapy
Is this person your partner?
Why would you want to hurt them? Your wife is a goddess, isn’t she? Of course other people will worship her. But you are the chosen one.
Would you prefer a wife others are repulsed by?
It’s jealousy. And it most likely stems from insecurity. I would talk to a therapist, if you can’t fix your jealousy issues you won’t have a long term healthy relationship. This is from personal experience. Also, if this person isn’t exclusive with you, you need to back off. You’re more likely to do permanent damage than woo them.
There’s nothing you can do about it. Learn your place in the world, and what exactly you have control over.
Therapy.
It takes a strong person to date someone others flock to. You need to work on your inner strength. Start with therapy.