As the title says, I took distance from a disaster of a girl who is currently dating a guy who is also my friend.
During the last couple months their relationship wasn’t going through its best moments, and she started acting really flirty with me and saying how I was better than my friend at this and that (I don’t want to get into too much details but I can 100% confirm that she was planning on cheating on the guy if I also felt like going in). I can’t blame her completely because I was responding to all of those comments and small actions, but after talking about it with some other friends I realized that I had to stop seeing her, not just for respect towards my friends relationship, but also to have some decency and self respect.
I know I did the right thing but I can’t stop thinking about this girl even if I know she is a horrible person. She was my best friend and we got really close before all this flirting started. I just want to know if you have gone through something similar. I’ve been trying everything, new hobbies, meeting more people, but at the end of the day I always go back to the feeling of wanting to get back and do whatever my instincts feel like doing. It’s also really hard to get over them because I see them in class every day.
TL;DR: I was really close to my friend (20F), she started flirting with me while dating my friend. I took my distance but I still feel like coming back.