She said sex is bad and isn’t attracted to me
Girl I’ve been seeing for 8 months has been telling me she doesn’t like the way we kiss. She also doesn’t like the way we have sex. Apparently her exes were all into dirty talk and role playing, and when I say I don’t know how to do that stuff and I wanna learn, she gets exasperated because as a guy “I should already know how to do this stuff.”
I used to be really bad at eating her out, so I fixed that and now I can make her cum all the time with my mouth. She just says sex isn’t passionate and I’m not making her feel wanted. We had sex just now and she said sometimes she feels like we are incompatible and better off as friends. I told her I am willing to work on this as long as I need to, because I really do want to be with her but it does sting to hear she likes all the experiences her exes and flings gave her yet I’m “eh.”
Part of me wants to give up and part of me wants to continue. I do love her for all her faults.