Greetings, my spouse (29F) and I (27M) have been married for 2 years. Prior to our marriage, we had sex, and everything was wonderful and exciting.
However, after marriage, things became dull, and occasionally we do not have sex, and if I try to start it, she says she is too tired or sleepy. Naturally, I try my best to make her feel comfortable and not to push since she had a previous incident, but on the other hand, I have a high sex drive, which makes me want to have sex more frequently, so it would be great if she did.
I have already tried to have a conversation with her about the situation, that i am not satisfied, and she says she can see it in herself and would like to work on it in the future, which makes me appreciate it so much, but there was nothing new.
I find that having sex is crucial to maintaining a relationship, and sometimes I find myself becoming consumed by the desire for sex alone.