Hi, I am 26F and he's 34M. We met through a resto bar and been dating few times now since then. I feel safe when I'm with him and comfortable. Few days ago, he said that he's actually divorced (2021) they've been married for 3 years and was in a relationship for 10 years.
The thing is, I was talking to a guy as well 2 years ago and after getting myself attached to him I found out he's kind of still connected with his ex (living together for visa purposes). And I think I still have that trauma from this experience.
Now, I'm a bit scared to move forward with this new guy that I am dating. What should I do? What should I ask myself before anything goes further?
2 comments
RUN & don’t look back … 1. He’s not over her emotional , and he’s probably gonna be in legal limbo with the “visa” issue.
Just because someone has been married before doesn’t mean they aren’t dateable. If anything, I’d say that’s the opposite and points to him wanting long term commitment.