We learned after a routine ultrasound that my GF is about to have a miscarriage. We are of course very sad.
I know that in this moment I have to be supportive but at the same time I feel that I am walking on eggs and when I try to do anything I get her mad? Should I just step away and not talk to her?
I don't really know how to be supportive if any interaction I do with her is wrong.
As an example here sample of conversations:
Me: babe can I come to see you later today?
Her:
I told you i dont want to see anyone
Including you. Im a mess and im not good for company
Me:
ok babe i'm only one call away at any time lemme know when you wanna talk
Her:
I told you that i would reach out to you when i was ready. I don’t know why you still texted me
I dont ever want to talk about this
TDLR: I can't find a way to be supportive to my gf who is going through a miscarriage.