This is my first experience with abruptly being ghosted (I think I’m being ghosted, at least), and I don’t really know how to handle it. She flaked on plans back to back days last week, which isn’t like her, and basically stopped responding to messages (I had to double text her twice last week and just stopped messaging after that). I haven’t tried messaging her at this point since last Friday, so six days, and she hasn’t messaged me at all.
Is it over? I thought about sending kind of a lighthearted message like, “Are you ghosting me because I cut my hair?” (I had long hair and she liked it but I had just cut it short — I don’t actually think this is the reason she ghosted at all, just trying to think of a light way to bring it up).
Not really sure how to proceed. Any advice?