My(21f) boyfriend (36m) likes to have quickies every other day but the longer versions only once in a while.
I don't particularly hate the quickies but I do like a bit of foreplay before sex. Also I don't get off much from quickies anyway.
I've been trying to say no to quickies a few times, thinking he would then show interest in some foreplay often but it doesn't seem to make any difference.
Do I just completely say no quickies or is it a bit too much?