My girlfriend (26F) and I (24M) have been together a little over a year and we also live together. I love her so much and I truly want to spend the rest of my life with her.
Admittedly she does not have a very high sex drive which is absolutely fine but I wanted to talk about our sex life a bit more. So last night in bed before we passed out for the night we just talked (I honestly did most of the talking regarding questions and the such) about sex. Now let me say that we are both shy when it comes to talking about sex (but her more so), naturally then, she didn’t have too much to say last night. The one suggestion she did make was that I be a little more “rough/firm” in the bedroom. She never really elaborated any further.
I do a lot of foreplay on her (fingering, oral…) and we both love it but I need ideas for how I can be more rough/firm with her?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!