When you self-pleasure in front of your spouse, what do you change?

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1. Not sure what are you asking… when it happens I don’t change anything. I want him to see exactly how I get off when he is not around.

2. I go from not watching something on my phone to basically imagining it in my head. Hope this makes sense.

3. I actually talk. If she is watching…she has to be doing something, talking,playing something. Usually she is behind me kissing or rubbing on me.

4. My wife will be talking or grabbing. Usually squeezing my belly. Not sure why but it works lol

5. the music.

6. Nothing really, the change is I’m not really looking at porn. It varies a bit, there’s no set script. I’m usually just masturbating as my wife rubs my chest, thighs etc while talking to me (usually some level of mild dirty talk stuff).

   In general though, how I actually masturbate doesn’t really change at all. If anything, it’s simply that I’m more inclined to edge and really take my time when she’s involved?

   When I’m alone, masturbation is usually more of a means to an end. Although, that may be unique to me as I have hyperspermia which more or less requires me to ejaculate daily unless I want to be walking around feeling like someone kicked me in the balls.

   Not to say it’s not enjoyable for me, it’s just with kids and a busy schedule, my masturbation habits these days usually consist of jerking off in bed at night after my wife’s fallen asleep, so usually I’m exhausted and just trying to cum so I’m not woken up by blue balls in the middle of the night. On the weekends it’s a quick one in the shower as that’s basically the only 15 minutes of privacy I get all day on the weekends.

   Generally speaking, almost all of my sessions alone are sub 5 minutes. My sessions with her, usually I go much longer as I prefer it to be more about the pleasurable experience rather than just cleaning the pipes out.