what does that phrase mean??
I hear this from different people whenever I talk about something being done that’s bothering me. Like for example, I could say why didn’t you reach out if you’re interested in doing something we’re both interested in and I get hit with that phrase.
I feel like it’s a nice way of saying you’re not that person I’d make time for much less think about. It reminds me of the quote “it’s not what’s being asked, it’s whose asking.”
I want friendships that aren’t passive af, but it feels like maybe my role is to enhance someone’s character development. I feel like if I was an extrovert I wouldn’t have this issue.