so i don’t know what happened but I am losing my mind rn.
I used to watch porn and masturbate like 3-4 times a week. that is, up until 14 days ago, when I noticed that I completely lost my sexual desire. I thought that’s weird, but I let it go, as I was planning to quit porn anyway.
well, around the same time, I got a girlfriend, my first relationship, and things was looking really good.
but then, she tried to take things forward – I got so scared and anxious that I stopped her. we laughed it off, and were good afterwards. but that’s when I started to notice that something must be wrong as it didn’t get hard at all.
now this is where it gets weird – it gets hard in the morning and randomly throughout the day. it sometimes even does so, when me and her are making out. but whenever things are about to take another step, it goes soft.
what’s even worse, is that I can’t even get it hard when I want it to. like I tried touching it and watcing porn and other stuff, but it wouldn’t get hard at all.
what happened? I read that it could be caused by anxiety but I can’t let this happen to me. I am trying to convince my brain to be okay but it won’t listen, and I really am losing my mind. I truly don’t want to lose her, and I feel like my life is over.
I was always kinda scared of sex, but I always had sexual desire. so did my brain just cut it off because of my girlfriend? and because it’s too anxious of anything sexual?
either way, I need to restore it back. I can’t let this ruin my life, and I don’t want to lose my girlfriend.
should I seek medical help?
any advice would be greatly appreciated.