Reposting because first one deleted.
How do I (F, 27) build deeper connection with my partner (m, 30) of 2 years? We are together after being apart for 3 months (we work in different cities) and my partner expressed that he feels like we are in different worlds. I try to be a part of his world but I feel like he won’t let me in. I’ve also tried to up the intimacy by initiating more, but it’s not reciprocated. I feel so lonely and I’ve been tempted to turn to outside sources for connection/validation because of it. I’ve tried to pour more into him to avoid that but it just feels like nothing is working.
Tl;dr: back together with my partner after three months apart. How do I build connection when nothings seems to be working?