My current girlfriend is quite complicated in that she has lost a lot of weight recently and toned up her body through p/t sessions and looks great now. She has a praise kink so its been easy to give her compliments and tell her how well she's done and how how good she looks.
The problem is she also has a sort 'rejection/chase' kink and loves the idea of being turned down and needing to work for it. She's told me tonight that she's getting too big for her boots and she needs to be made to work for things more. I'm not exactly sure how I can do this without contradicting myself with the praise that I gave her earlier. Also I don't want to be so mean that I knock her confidence too much. Any advice would be welcome. Thanks