My gf loves sex but doesn’t like dicks

As title says, I'm in a relationship for 2 months now, the sex is great, ,we are compatible in all aspects, however she doesn't like dicks. She likes sex, the penetration, but she doesn't like looking at my dick, doesn't give bj or hj , and at the start I was feeling okay with that. I tried communicating with her and she said she doesn't just find atractiveness to that and its not her piece of tea . I always go down on her when we have sex cause I love to do it, I don't do it just for her to feel to do the same, however lately I feel like im sexually frustrated. I used to have a high libido and always want sex, but now Im starting to not even want to do it anymore, it feels boring, I do foreplay to make her want it, to hear her in pleasure but she doesn't even want to kiss my neck or rub my back (we communicated about this) . What should I do, i feel emotionally attached and don't wanna leave her but at the same time I feel like it's taking a toll on my self esteem and mental health