Just for some context, I’m 24m and only recently got my first proper gf within the last month or so.
I’ll cut right to the chase, my first time staying at hers, things got a bit heated between us. Had my first kiss, first time ever seeing and feeling boobs, first time fingering someone. These are things I’ve been excited to experience for years, but then during my first times experiencing them all, I just couldn’t get fully hard.. she tried to give me a hj under my pants but it just felt average and again, I just couldn’t get fully hard. She said she doesnt mind and that was that. Skip over 2 weeks and I was at hers again last Tuesday night and all of Wednesday. A lot of the same stuff again, making out, fingering, boobs and all that. This time I decided to pull my pants down completely for her to give me a hj, showed her a few little things to make it better but again, I just couldn’t get fully hard and it all just felt average. What makes it worse, when I kissed her for the first time and all that, I did get very hard and had a decent amount of pre, but then when we’re all talk this stuff together, I’m completely dry…. It’s starting to affect my confidence with it all and I’m really worrying if I will be able to get hard with her at all. By myself im completely fine, I’m able to get hard and finish, everything solo is perfectly fine, but when im with her, i just can’t do anything. Idk if it’s all just nerves and my body just doesn’t know what to do, so it just shuts down??? Idk but it’s really hurting my confidence.
Any ideas or advice?? If im going to hers, I don’t masturbate, just in case.