I was debating where to post this because many people don’t fully understand the details of narcissism.
Narcissists are often seen as self-centered and prone to showing off, but their behavior is rooted in deep-seated insecurity. They constantly need reassurance that they aren’t as flawed as they fear, or even that they are superior. This insecurity drives them to seek validation from others, often through manipulation and comparison. They are obsessed with themselves so they struggle to consider others’ perspectives. Even when they try, they still focus on themselves, so don’t expect them to emphasize. They just can’t.
If you have been bullied for no apparent reason, you may have been targeted by a narcissist. They often prey on individuals with loose connections to others, as this makes it easier for them to manipulate both the victim and those around them. Narcissists thrive on influencing and controlling others, as it makes them feel superior.
Narcissism cannot be cured or changed. The best strategies for dealing with narcissists are the grey rocking method or cutting off the relationship entirely.
As a loner, my personality seems to make me a prime target for narcissists. I’ve had numerous encounters with them in both my social and work circles. While I’ve tried using the grey rock strategy or distancing myself, these approaches have often proven limited. I’m frustrated and exhausted from dealing with them.
Please share your success stories on how you handled narcissists. I’m eager to learn and hope to improve myself.