need advice :
my bf (19M) and I (19F) have been together for over a year now. our sex life is pretty good but most times I find myself getting 'stuck' on what to do and awkwardly ask my bf on what to do and he replies with 'whatever you want to do'. he is the person I lost my virginity to so I'm not that experienced however I would like to know some tips (it can be ANYTHING) on how I can be better at it / more dominant. we are quite vanilla but occasionally do some choking or 'aggressive' slaps / dirty talk. I also find myself being super hesitant when it comes to dirty talk / being kinky even though I like it. any feedback or tips is greatly appreciated:)