My wife has next to zero sex drive…. she lead on differently when we first started talking and texting but I found out pretty quickly that she doesn't have much of one at all. And it's upsetting. Literally our main issue in our relationship has always been sex. Which is weird because she has a fucking breeding kink. (Which I am 1000% on board for.) But 45 out of 50 advances and attempts to initiate. Gets turned down. And 3 ton4 out of that last 5. She doesn't want to, only does for me. Which makes me feel fucking terrible and not even want to…. it's gotten to the point to where I wonder if it's just that she isn't and never really has been attracted to Me. Or ever even found me attractive as a whole.
She does not enjoy giving head. Doesn't really want to have sex. Says she enjoys it when we do. But that's it. And one of my biggest problems here? She always tells me she "WANTS, to want to". How the fuck does that even work. I have tried so many y different things to try and get her turned on and nothing works. We have had countless conversations about this, all she can ever really say is " I don't know, I wish I could tell you". I have even gone as far as telling her straight up, look no holds barred..I want you to think of 3 things to 5 things or even just one thing. That you want to try…. and same answer, idk. Tell her to think it over. A week goes by, I ask her if she has thought of anything. " I really don't know". I just need some fucking answers.