I (M22) have been seeing this girl (F20) for over a couple of months now. She is a very attractive girl and the relationship was going great until she started bringing up her past relationships and trauma. I know that nobody is a saint and that everybody has a past but the amount of baggage she has seems to be a lot for a 20 year old. She has been with 16 people, half of these happened in a 3 month span. She has only ever been in toxic relationships and has admitted to cheating before. She also said that she had videos of her and her ex get leaked to the point where many people she knew saw it. There is a lot more but I think you get the idea.
After she told me all of these things I started to get this feeling that is just constantly causing me to be anxious and feel sick to my stomach. I think this is me subconsciously telling myself that this isn’t right and that I need to get out but I’m not sure. Have any of you guys experienced this before and do you think I am correct in thinking that I’m subconsciously telling myself to get out? I have never experienced this in previous relationships and don’t have a ton of dating experience so any advice on this is much appreciated.
TL;DR – I really like this girl but I’m not sure if I’m subconsciously telling myself that I need to get out of the relationship.