Hello Reddit! So basically my boyfriend and I are planning to move in together pretty soon. I’m (female) 23, my boyfriend is 20 (21 soon). We have been together for 6 months and I’m aware that considered very soon to move in together but we were both needing a roommate to move and frankly, we have very similar lifestyles and we’re both clean people (which can be hard to find with strangers). Essentially we are in an incredibly healthy relationship and truly do make each other better people. With it being so soon and my bf being younger, I’m of course understanding of his mother being unsure. She’s worried about her son and I don’t fault her for that. I also think (well hope) that her concern is more about him moving for the first time, not necessarily about him moving in with me. Me and her have a good relationship and I just want to do what I can to help her and my bf. I want my boyfriend to have his mom’s support and I want his mom to feel less scared. I don’t want to lose the good relationship his mother and I have. Any advice?
TL;DR: My boyfriend’s mom is worried about him moving out for the first time and I don’t have any idea on how to support/comfort both of them.