I've tried to talk to women through dating apps. However I've always felt like I had to make much effort in order to just hold a conversation.
I'm particularly aware about my below average looks however , I still try being more social considering I've always been a loner.
Do women like people who make efforts at talking with her or does it have to do more with appearance?? How can I be myself while being a little free from the shell that I've built around me throughout the years ?