I messed up my relationship of 4yrs . My Ex wanted to get married soon and due to my family situation I wanted him to wait for few months. He was not ready to wait and his family kept pressuring him to get married. I asked him to tell his parents about oru relationship and ask time but he said he'll talk to his parents about us only and only if my parents accept the relationship and I must tell first. I had no problem telling my parents 1st but it was not the correct time or situation. He couldn't wait and eventually we brokeup. Within 2months of breakup his parents found him a girl and he got engaged. During this 2months I said my parents about him and they were okay. When I said this to him he said he couldn't stop the engagement now bcuz the girls family had already paid for the engagement. I dint know what to do. He got married 3 months ago to this girl who he dint even like. I wanted to stay away from him that he is married now and there is nothing more to do.
But one day suddenly I received a call from him saying his wife had seen his old texts with me and she's been blackmailing him ever since that If he doesn't listen to her she would tell his parents. He said me he wanted to get out and started crying . So dumb me said if you are not happy in this marriage please talk to her and continue it or end it now before it's too late. For this he said no I will continue the marriage even if it means I have to beg her.
After hearing him say this my heart broke a little more that he was willing to do this for a girl he dint even like, only if he had this patience with me we would have got married. So I said him not to contact me anymore even though I was broken saying that. He replied that he'll call me when he's free and I particularly told him not to.
After all this I still want to talk to him and see how's he doing.