I'm 37 (no kids) My boyfriend (38 no kids) was separated from his ex wife since last September (2023) up until this past March (2024). His experience with being married to her (for 13 years) has made him not want to be married again. She has a gambling addiction and just overall stopped being who he married. So he filed for divorce. They tried to have kids, but she wasn't able to. Now he's 39 and says he doesn't want kids, he thinks it's too late for that and he's been here long enough to realize that he's too selfish with his time for them. I asked him to not take marriage off of the table completely, since I know his divorce is fresh, he could possibly feel this way because of it? He said okay
My question is… with me wanting to be married one day, am I wasting my time hoping his mind changes?! Any married, twice married, or divorced men with advice?! Please help me!
I'm not rushing things, but I don't want to wait around for a man with his mind made up already.