M 26 f 26
Quick background: me and my gf dated for about 2 years before we broke up for about 1.5 years after we got back together, we’ve been together nearly 2 years since then and are expecting our first in a few months. In the time we broke up I did have another gf for a short term and a few flings and she told me she had a thing with one guy. Initial it hurt me, mainly due to the fact it was someone I knew (not very well). She told me it was a one time thing and that’s it so I got over it. Tonight she went to bed early she left her phone on the bed and I’ve never done this before but I went through it. Mainly her TikTok messages with her one “problematic” friend where I saw my gf was send that girl TikToks saying “me” or “I’m going to send this to blank”, inferring to the guy in question. These messages were from when we were broken up but they were for months (2-3 months) and all relating about unprotected sex, plan b, and pregnancy. Now I’m questioning how was it a 1 time thing? I want to confront her about it but I don’t know what to do. I would love to have a nice future with my son and her but at the same time don’t want to have been played. Please need help.