I (24m) been seeing a new girl for the past few months after coming out of a 4 year relationship earlier in the year.
Roughly 50% of the time I go to have sex with this new girl I cannot maintain my erection. Mentally I really want to have sex but I can’t stop thinking about how I will go soft and it then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. It’s only getting worse and last night resulted in me having a full panic attack about the situation. I have never had erection issues in the past and work full time + go the gym every day of the week, libido is otherwise the same.
Has anybody endured this before and if so what tips do people have to overcome this?