For context,
I've been reading up on reddit, forums and articles on the location and I understand that medically it is stated as being between 1-3 inches on the anterior wall of the vagina, opposite to the clitoris.
I further understand that the gspot is often described as spongy, or round and bulbous or rough with ridges, and that this feeling can only be made apparent once the female is well aroused.
My middle finger (longest finger) is about 3.1 inches in length.
I have tried to arouse my lady, oral, touching the works. And she's like really wet down there, but for the life of me I can't find or feel that spongy/round/ridgy thing that Im supposed to feel. I've moved my fingers left and right and I still can't feel it.
Am I doing something wrong? Are any of my understanding incorrect?
Thank you.