Hello, first off, sorry if my english sucks; I'm not native.

So, let's get into it. I have been in a relationship with my partner for roughly 2 years; we're both teenagers (16F and 16M), so we started dating when we were 14.
I'd like to kindly ask you not to tell me straight up to dump him, I know there's more than just 'dumping him' or 'leaving him alone' after what I say, (I hope).

So, recently, I've had a conversation with my boyfriend and, he expressed the fact the relationship was making him feel overwhelmed easily, and that he'd keep dating me until he couldn't bear the overwhelming feeling anymore because he loves me.
I am not someone that gets this type of feeling, as I am very physical. I am the one that 'overwhelms' with my feelings the other person, and I try to be less overwhelming by giving him space to play with his buddies, to go do whatever he wants; I just want a little message every now and then when I text him.

This conversation has been in my mind ever since we've had it, and I honestly cried myself to sleep more than once at this rate. I wonder if there is anything I could do to help him, maybe, feel better, less anxious, less suffocating in my presence ?

If you got any questions I'll try answering them.

TL;DR : My boyfriend told me that being in a relationship with me was overwhelming and I don't want him to break up with me, what can I do?


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