I (31F) JUST got back into dating for the first time since I was 18. I met this guy (32M) off of Tinder. We had a date a bar he frequently goes to. We chatted and had a nice time, the patrons and the bartender even made comments on how well things were going. Our date ended with a hug and him offering me on a 2nd date (time and place were picked).

Throughout the week, we’ve texted each other once or twice a day, and had one evening of some spicy chatting where he told me he’d need to reschedule our date. The texting slowed down, but didn’t stop after that.

Last night, I went back to the same bar since I know he frequents it. He didn’t tell me he was going, I just went on my own accord. When I arrived and saw he was in fact there, I got spooked. I suddenly felt like I was being creepy or stalker-ish. So, I left. I texted later him saying “hey, I saw you at the bar, sorry I didn’t say hi, I got nervous.” He replied back with “it’s all good! Figured you were out and about!”

Now what…??? What do I do?! I feel like I did something creepy and I didn’t mean to!


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