Hello, I'm 17 and with my girlfriend (18) we've been together for 3 months. We're really deeply in love and last week we were in a hotel for one night.
Each of us knew why we went there.
As the things started heating up, she allowed me to start penetrating her gently.
But there was the problem.
The boy in her previous relationship was a little smaller down there than me and with him it hurted her during vaginal sex.
She told me that she was not sure if she'll handle it cause of my bigger size.
While I was slowly and gently sliding into her, she stopped me cause of the pain. I didn't even get inside.
It was not the only try I did, but all of them went the same.
There she started being disappointed, almost cried and started hating herself, saying "What if we'll never be able to have it cause of me?"
I started calming her down with words "Don't worry baby, maybe we need more time. I'm not mad, it's not your fault, we can still make it nice and pleasant." and so on.
Then I gave her a nice, full-body massage so she got absolutely relaxed.
Does anybody have a simillar experience or problem?
I'll be grateful for every single advice.