He cheated on this girl multiple times and we were friends at first and he would always tell me how sorry he was and that it was his biggest regret. I really thought he meant everything he said, i never saw him as a bad person especially because he never mentioned that he cheated on her for 6 MONTHS with at least 7 girls. He made it seem like it was a mistake, like a drunk kiss at a party. We moved in together, i met his parents, then things got weird between us out of nowhere.
He told me they broke up in August, last year. And i believed him. They were together the whole time, she forgave him back then, they never ended things and i guess she never knew about me and i never knew about her. No one knew about her. He was so paranoid about being caught again that he kept their relationship a secret so that his friends wouldn’t tell her anything.
Everyone knew we were together and his plan perfectly worked until two days ago when i realized he was following her on a different account on instagram. He lied to me and i had a feeling so i messaged her.
Long story short, we realized he was in a relationship with us and another “ex” at the same time. He was also having sex with two other girls. What shocks me is that he tried so hard to make amends with her and he still had the audacity to cheat after causing her so much suffering. I don’t understand how anyone could be like this. How could you beg someone to forgive you and do the exact same thing? Is this guy actually insane or is it a psychological explanation to this because i’m extremely confused at how anyone could be such a scum
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Generally people grow out of this in their 30s.
Sounds like he needs a psych evaluation he must have no conscience