I am lost at 33. I've lost friends for various that were close to me in my 20s and have reshuffle my circle in the last few years. Then when I think people are close or I view them as close they don't reveal important details of their life or share things with me like basic stuff but then ask me to be in their wedding but not give me time to hang or call me.
The same is true with my cousins and extended family. No one is close to me even when I try.
I think people are close to me until I realize they don't view me that way.
I have to always make plans with people. And follow up and plan things and I'm exhausted. If I don't do this I end up just being alone.
I don't get it. I try really really hard and I was always work on being a better person, friend and family member.
How can I work on fostering better connections and closeness with others?
How do I know who my people are?