What is wrong ?

I’m a 24M, for the last couple of years (6-7)I was not in any kind of relationship. I was (and still am) mostly chatting with girls from time to time. I get complimented about my appearance from both gender, everyone is saying that it should be easy for me to date/hook up with girl when in reality I kind of feel like Im struggling to even get to set a date and meet up. Either we stop talking/ghost or it just cancels last minute. Since I don’t like to text so Im asking to meet as soon as possible. I just don’t know what to do to change this and it triggers me.