I dislike the majority of people in my life
Questioning whether or not this is something that others go through.
I’ll keep it short. I’m noticing that most of the people in my life live by a different moral code than I do.
Friends: For example, I went out with a couple of friends for a friend’s birthday on Saturday. The friend who we all drove with (we all agreed to carpool & I paid for her entrance into the bar as a thank you) stopped the car on the way back to her place and asks us if it would be ok for her to go to her boyfriend’s place who lived closer to the bar and for us to Uber back to her house and pick up our cars from there. I obviously objected along with everyone else but she went anyway and we had to pay for an Uber back to her place.
Family:
I live at home. My mother and father currently owe me $21,000 that was given as a loan for a home renovation. I let them borrow this money in January and was promised to have it back by March of this year. Have not received a dime. My mother is a housewife who hates asking my dad for money and asked me yesterday for $200 yesterday and said she would pay me back within 3 weeks. I reminded her that they owe me over $20,000 and I currently have ZERO money as I have been unemployed since January when I started school (I will be unemployed until I graduate in May 2025). Why would you ask me this knowing that you owe me.
My sister hasn’t had a car since she got into an accident. For the past few months when we’ve hung out I would leave my house, go to her house to pick her up, go to the place, drop her off from said place, and then return home. I have never once asked her for gas money because I was doing her a solid. I frequently cover things when we’re out. She recently paid for $25 Uber ride that had 2 other people in it and requested me for $8 for the Uber. Idk but this rubbed me the wrong way very much.
- Relationships:
I recently broke up with a man who was an amazing human for the first 4 months of the relationship( love bombing gifts,trip, etc.) and turned out to be a real P.O.S who criticized my every move. Seriously. I couldn’t dress right, I couldn’t eat properly, I was not affectionate enough and then I was too affectionate. Couldn’t catch a break.
I have plenty more instances in every sector of my life but I just wanted to know if anyone related to having almost all shitty people in their lives?
TL:DR: The majority of people in my life suck. At this point I’m wondering if it’s just or if others can relate to this being a problem in their lives.