guys I feel like every time I talk to someone just me and them I make them uncomfortable, they start to look away and they don’t continue the conversation, like they are willing for it to end already. When I’m in a group setting I feel like the conversations are normal and everyone seems involved but when I’m alone with someone talking to them they look really uncomfortable. Also, at college there are some people who talk to everyone, like, they make fun of everyone and are like social butterflies and I’ve noticed that they never talk to me, as if they get like uncomfortable when talking to me even if they are extroverted af.
I don’t know why this happens because I consider myself a normal person even though I have social anxiety, people just treat me differently and it’s not something that I’ve created inside my head because I actually notice it every day at college, all my friends talk to random people and random people approach them all the time, but when it comes to me people don’t even get near me and get all serious when they do, also when I’m in a trio with one of my friend and a random person and my friend leaves for some reason, even if the conversation was awesome before, the random person stops talking and it gets really awkward.
so what do you guys think I’m doing wrong? because I just wanted to be treated like everyone else